"Thank you...for making me feel good about myself.."
These are just some lines from a movie I saw some time back and have remained with me since.
How plain & simple the words are, yet they shoot a message that has a remarkable emotional depth to it.
I am sure each one of us at some point in our lives have salivated for attention, or that feeling of 'being wanted', to be loved, heard & cared for. Let's face it, we all want it or rather need it terribly.
Its important & its perfectly healthy to feel that way. yes...
Its a fact, that while we race to make our ends meet, our eyes fail to catch the emotional void that may be setting in the hearts of people who matter to us. Purely because we take them for granted.
and in this long walk of life we nitpick their habits, point out their inabilities, underestimate their potential etc.
Why do that? We're just making someone sad & at the same time hoping for our own day to be good. Is that fair? Those are the same people we rush to when we have a bad day and our day surely gets mended with their love.
Never tell them how imperfect they are. How could you tell? No two people are the same. Accept them for what they are. Nothing can be more reassuring.
All that love needs ... is a little reciprocation.
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ReplyDeleteIts really true , the last sentence of the blog touched me a lot , love do need a reciprocation and expecting is not bad at all cuz u expect only from those who give u reasons to expect from them. :)
ReplyDelete:) true !
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